Dating For The Single Goddess

Dear You,

Yes, you - the woman who sometimes wonders if she’s asking for too much. The one who has smiled politely through dates that felt like interviews, who has waited for the phone to light up, who has thought, Maybe if I were just a little less... me.

I’m writing to tell you something I wish someone had told me, back when I was endlessly swiping and scrolling past other people’s happy endings.

You are already enough.

Not someday, not once you’ve got it all figured out - now.

There’s a special kind of courage in being single. It’s the courage to build a life that fits you beautifully, before inviting anyone else in. It’s solo trips to the cinema where you buy the big popcorn without shame.

It’s sprawling mornings, messy kitchens, (if you're like me) and dancing badly to your favourite songs while the kettle boils.

It’s becoming the love of your own life, before anyone else even gets a look in.

That’s why I wrote Dating for the Single Goddess: A Journey to Self-Love.

Not as a list of rules to follow or hoops to jump through. No tricks, no strategies, no promises to help you “find him faster.”

Instead, it’s a soft landing place. A companion for the days when you forget how fabulous you already are.

Inside, you’ll find:

• 16 chapters about self-love, boundaries, and dating.

• Reflection prompts and affirmations, ready to be tucked into your journal or whispered to yourself on heavy days.

• Two original poems, because sometimes poetry does what plain old advice never can.

This book is for you if you’ve ever:

• Waited for someone else to choose you and forgotten you could choose yourself.

• Diminished your dreams to squeeze into someone else’s.

• Wondered if maybe your life is just fine exactly as it is, single and sparkling.

You are not an almost and you are not an option.

And love? When it comes — and it will — will not complete you. It will simply admire how breathtakingly whole you already are.

Be wild. Be soft. Be stubborn. Be curious. Be entirely, gloriously yourself.

Create a life so wonderful that anyone lucky enough to join it is simply the cherry on top of something already sweet and whole.

If you’re ready to stop waiting, stop shrinking, and start choosing yourself - this little book is for you.

📖 Dating for the Single Goddess: A Journey to Self-Love is now available on Kindle.

Don't have Kindle? You can download the PDF here.

Maybe pour yourself a cup of tea and curl up somewhere cosy while you’re at it. You deserve that moment.

With love,
J.R.